When someone claims to be pansexual, the usual reaction is usually of strangeness.The most well-off are wondering, " but for that there is no longer the word bisexual?". The truth is that although they have common characteristics, start from different concepts of gender identity.
Both the bisexual and the pansexual, affirm that they fall in love with people and not with their genitals.The difference between two is that the first believes that there are only two genders, that is, man and woman, however, the second lacks that binary vision, so that understands that there is a whole gray scale between these extremes .
Thus, have the ability to love and desire any human being , regardless of gender or gender, but let's go deeper into the topic to understand it better , Do you think?
What does it mean to be pansexual? 4 facts you should know
Pansexual does not mean polygamy
It is not about having several relationships at the same time.That you may be attracted to one person, no matter in which genre spectrum your situation or your biological sex, does not mean you want to have several partners at once .Therefore, pansexuality and monogamy are not lacking.
This alternative is different from polyamory. Polyamorous people do include more people in their relationships , always with the agreement of all parties.Yes, it is possible to be heterosexual and polyamorous, as well as pansexual and monogamous.
They do not have to be promiscuous
Another topic is to think that as soon as they go out to the street they are on the prowl.It has nothing to do.It is logical to have such an impression, because identifying yourself with this sexual option implies break many social taboos , so why wouldn't they cross other borders?
While there are people who work this way, others act the opposite way .Far from prioritizing the body, They seek a deeper emotional or intellectual connection .This is not achieved with a crossword at a disco, at least it is not usual.It takes time and luck to get it, so accumulating casual encounters seems incompatible with said search.
They are not confused
I remember that scene of Sex in New York perfectly, in which Miranda claimed that bisexuality was a process of transition to homosexuality.It applies to pansexuality.
Not so, does not constitute a bridge to any place .Quite the opposite.It divides us into men and women when we are born, depending on our genitals.No one asks us who we are, they define us from the outside, while we are associated with a type of desire.According to their optics, this is something artificial and cultural, as phenomena such as transsexuality, intersexuality or the queer genre show..
It's not just a fad
«Where was the pansexual 30 years ago? »some ask, as irrefutable proof that we are facing a phenomenon of the decline of a century without values (traditional, of course).
We must have Consider repression, the impossibility of aligning yourself with any identity other than the hero-patriarchal.Besides, an open society gives rise to greater diversity .50 years ago, life was being played if they admitted to being gay.Therefore, it was almost impossible for someone to reach the freedom of thought necessary to reach the pansexual approach.
In any case, considering that there are families that sell their daughters to the highest bidder, others are killed with each other for money or football, what does it matter if new ways of loving appear?
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