Friendships also expire, do you know what are the most common reasons?

That's right.Many of our friendships have an expiration date .Maybe today you have that group of friends with whom you live a thousand adventures, with whom you share a thousand secrets and hundreds of experiences However, even though you have promised yourself eternal friendship , it is very possible that many of these friends will move away with time.

It has all happened to us, but Far from seeing it as something sad, it is really a maturation process that is part of our life experience.We all advance in knowledge, in wisdom, in emotional fullness, from there to see these processes as something «natural».

Now, which are usually the most common causes of those distances? That we are separating from some friends and not others? Today in Science Daily Online we invite you to delve into this topic, asking you as always, to tell us about your experiences.

1.We all mature, some better and some worse

You might also have that fantastic friend you grew up with, with whom you lived those first years in school, those adventures and those pranks you keep as very precious treasures .However, As the years go by you notice that there is no magic, that the spark is no longer lit as before...

Friendships also expire, do you know what are the most common reasons?

He or she laughs at things that do not make you smile, you interest in things that bore you or don't stimulate you. Going out with him or her makes you uncomfortable more than anything else...Until in the end, you realize that the years have made you mature in another way In the end, you end up choosing friend It's different and your relationship is limited to those brief greetings, or to see how your life is going on your wall of Facebook , without either of you ever giving away a "like".

2 Confidences are no longer private

He was your intimate friend, you trusted him with your thoughts, your opinions, your gaps and your confidences.that one day, and by chance, you discover that second people also have that information about the arch of your secrets, and it always happens in the most inopportune way possible.

You feel wounded, and the disappointment is so great that you either choose to face yourself, or just walk away to forget that friendship forever.

3.A treason

The first thing you will have thought without a doubt is the typical or typical friend who ends up falling in love with our partner and in some cases, they even start a parallel relationship. It usually happens.However, there are many types of tr actions you are sure to identify.

Friendships also expire, do you know what are the most common reasons?

Betrayal of loyalty, not to support us when we need it.To despise our ideas or choices made, to start judging ourselves for everything we do.Sometimes, It happens overnight at night.Suddenly, we realize that we are sanctioned and that in that friendship there is already more tension than warmth.

4.At last I have freed myself from that toxic friendship!

You have always known it.You have always been clear that this friendship made you more harm than good, but you had never dared to depart from him or her because you felt sorry for him, and because despite everything, you estimated it.

Friendships also expire, do you know what are the most common reasons?

Aho Well, there comes a time in our lives when we take stock and realize that in order to be healthy, that to be well with ourselves, it is necessary to avoid toxic people.We have done everything possible to make them see that certain things of their relationship causes us damage, until in the end, we take a breath and we start forever is an umbilical cord.

And now tell us, do you identify with any of these dimensions? What have normally been the causes for which you have distanced from any of your friends?

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