With all this immersion in technology and smartphones, face-to-face conversations have gone to the background, being written communication that leads the way we interact with others And it is not all bad, because we attend remote work via email , we meet new people in social networks and chat with friends or couples when a physical encounter is not possible.
But this communicational change, among other issues, complicates the task of detecting lies in Whatsapp , text messages or email, taking into account that there is no body language to read, not much less looks or tone of voice that are worth to decipher possible hidden intentions.However, as the lies have short lpatas, there are certain signals that can help you identify them in such circumstances.
Detect lies in Whatsapp or in an email, can you?
Do we play detective yes To detect lies on WhatsApp or any other written medium, it is essential to trust your intuition, in addition, the “analysis of statements” is key.According to Tyler Cohen, official in the Intelligence Agency of the American Defense , to the Wall Street Journal , this analysis consists in studying in detail the words that the person in question handles, in order to detect failures-if any.do not miss this selection of sentences about the lie and take note of the following:
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Absence of personal pronouns
When someone lies, the “I” or the “we” tends to disappear in the conversation.This kind of distant language is an unconscious way of detaching ourselves from the situation we want to lie about.It is also a way of not giving more details about the identity of possible companions.
-“Why do you answer me at this time?”-“The day It was quite busy and some friends appeared.”
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Ignore some questions
Lying is an awkward practice, even since W hatsapp .So pay attention if your interlocutor ignores your questions, also if he answers them insufficiently, because if he lies, he will want to change or evade the subject in any way due to the tension generated by the lie per se, and this is a way to do it.
-“And what were you doing?”
-“Visit some friends.Did you watch the show this afternoon? Wasn't it great? ”
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They write differently than usual
If you chat Frequently with someone, it may have happened to you that it is possible to capture you if you are angry, upset or sad, despite your efforts to hide it while writing. Just give yourself notice that they write differently than everyday to notice...the same happens when they lie.
"To be honest", "I hate to tell you this but..." , "I'm just saying that..."
Exculpatory expressions are usually used when we don't feel comfortable with what we'll say next.This is usually used as a preamble to release a lie.
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Expressions like "I guess", "po probably or probably, "" I'm pretty sure "and" we'll see, " can point to lies
Ambiguous expressions are the liars' weapon, the lower Ace the sleeve to avoid talking with the truth.After all it is easier to avoid giving an honest answer that may not fall in grace, using words or sentences that do not affirm or deny a fact, but talk about possibilities.
It is necessary to clarify that the «analysis of declarations» is not a 100% reliable way to discover deception.However, if you speak to someone in writing and incur most of the points , the possibility that you are hiding something is much greater, than according to what Tyler Cohen suggests.Have you been able to detect lies by WhatsApp or mail? As you may have noticed, although complex, if you can, but the precision is in the details.
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-Learn to read people as an agent does of the FBI.
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