Experts say that many times the distrust caused by a person is because what he says does not match his nonverbal language.Without realizing we continually read our interlocutor ; their gestures, their expressions, the way they position their body...and unconsciously we get information from all of them. Know these unconscious gestures with your hands and what they mean.
Unconscious hand gestures, what do they mean?
When we talk, we usually gesture at the same time .If we reinforce the phrase with gestures, has a double effect: on the one hand, the words we need come before our mind and on the other, facing our interlocutor, we are both more understandable and more persuasive.There is an area of our brain called Broca area that is related to the speech process , but interestingly also is activated when we move our hands .Speech and gestures seem to go very close.Some gestures, such as pointing back when you talk about the past, are very evident and clearly perceived and read by the interlocutor, but there are other gestures that are not so much.
The Palms with open hands or 45 degrees is a gesture that expresses sincerity, honesty and absence of aggressiveness.mission.
Palms down indicate confidence in what is being said.
Closed Puno is a sign of challenge and threat of physical violence, although sometimes we also use it unconsciously to show our solidarity.
Hands on hips is a subtly aggressive attitude as it tries to make physical presence more important.
Hands in pockets indicates that the person is not interested in the situation or conversation taking place.
Hand up, hand down. When in a conversation he gestures by placing two things in space, the one that indicates the dominant hand is the one that prefers the one who is speaking.
Thumbs out of pockets , if the who has his hands in that position is a man and has another male in front of him, indicates aggressiveness if there is a conflict, however, if he has a woman in front, he expresses that the woman attracts him and wants to show confidence and authority.
Hand scratching the head , means there is confusion and the person needs to clear up.
Rubbing the eyes or touching the face and pointing the temple with the index finger, indicate saturation, the person needs a rest.
Covering your mouth with your hand indicates reflection or, in other situations, that the person speaking is lying and unconsciously covers his mouth.
Fingers joined by separate tips and palms , in the form of a bell tower roof.They give confidence, although sometimes it is done to Give that feeling when someone feels insecure.
Hands behind the back holding each other, indicate that the person is nervous and tries to control it.
Interlaced fingers mean anxiety or even frustration.
We hope that these indications will be useful to interpret the unconscious gestures with the hands of your interlocutor and even yourself.Do you know any more? Share it with us.
If you were interested in this article, you may want to read the post: 5 keys of body language that will make you more attractive.
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