Okay, many of our readers may have the word "for a lifetime" scared them.You may find yourself in that age when you prefer to experiment slowly, to let the day less thought, that true love appears with which to initiate a vital project .
However, there are those who are still waiting for the arrival of that special person.? How to know, for example , that the couple we have now is the right one, the ideal one, the one that has to stay with us all our life?
The truth is that something like that nobody knows.Living means taking risks, dare to feel to start and try.It may not work out, but as such, we will have obtained an apprenticeship that will serve us in the future.it is to give life to our years, and that the years, do not slip into emptiness...without love, without adventures.Without emotions.
Let's talk today about how that "ideal" couple with whom, to spend our whole lives.
1.Someone to laugh with, someone to learn with
You may have those friends with which, laugh and have a good time.Sharing good moments where having fun and joking is also essential at the couple level.Taking things sometimes with humor will help us solve many problems co Tidians, and at the same time, relativize things and enjoy that communication that does not need words: the smile.
In addition to the sense of humor, we all need a person by our side that allows us to grow as a person, with our values, our independence, that respects our spaces and that in turn, be someone with maturing as a couple .The key is to continue being oneself, but forming a «great team», the best.
2.Same hobbies, same values and some aspects with which to «disagree»
It must be clear, the ideal couple is not the one with which, we agree in everything .Misms musical tastes, same literary, cinematographic hobbies...All this is very good to make a team, to enjoy good moments, but sometimes, having different characters also ay uda.
Shy may find incentives in that bold and shameless personality, and perhaps, in turn, the extrovert and impulsive will find the center of their balance in that more focused and prudent couple. Feeling complemented and enjoying in turn some opposite point but with similar values, makes the relationship more lively, more intense.
3.Tolerance and communication
You may have had a partner that attracted you, but you didn't trust.You dared not tell or ask certain things for fear of being judged. Or even more, it is possible that on one occasion you would perceive that he did not accept your opinions, your ideas.That what he or she said was that absolute truth that was above all.
We must go with Beware of this type of sea behavior Caused by intolerance and disrespect. If there are three basic pillars to achieve a stable relationship, are communication, respect and empathy .It is not enough to Attraction, sometimes love is not enough, because a love without respect is not a sincere love.
Now, having someone by our side who is complies with our secrets , that offers us a firm and stable commitment, that makes us laugh, that listens to us and that in turn, favors our personal growth...Do not hesitate! It is a good or good candidate to gray hair by your side!
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